No Positive Male Role Models

I don't understand how a man can want to be sorry. You have children who are wonderful but you choose not to see them except when it is convenient for you. That makes it bad for you and not the kids. The kids are really not missing out on anything.

Men fail to realize that there is going to be a positive male influence around the children even if it is not him. My children have plenty of men in their lives and they are not even men whom I share a physical like to. They are grandfathers, uncles, cousins, and spiritual leaders.

My children are a wonderful group and all who come in contact with them fall in love. A man who doesn't help voluntarily or that dodges the laws so that they don't have to pay child support is just sorry. As a man you should be willing to and want to take of your legacy. If you are unable to support them or even spend time with them then you should be willing to give them up so that they can have all of that support from someone who actually is around and wants to be around.

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A Wonderful Creation

Men are a wonderful creation. Without men there would be no women to birth the men. Now with that being said why is it that men don't seem to get "it"? No matter what a woman may say she ultimately wants to be in a relationship and possibly she wants that relationship with him. She only says she doesn't because she tries to keep her guard up so that she won't be hurt.

A man will spend all of his free time with you, compliment you, be there for you, take care of you but will not make an exclusive commitment. They would rather have the relationship without the titles, strings, and responsibilities. I'm actually not bitter about it because I think it may be the best thing for me right now.

To have a man that you can hold, spend time with, share thoughts and dreams, and basically do all the things you love or are accustomed to is kind of nice. That way if things start happening for better or for worse you can move the relationship in whichever direction.

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