You have a man that wants to be with you. He enjoys your time, your mind, your talents, and he accepts your faults. He wants to get to know the details of what makes you happy, what makes you upset, and how he can make it all better. Now that everything sounds too good to be true, do you begin to question how good it really is? Is it enough that you are introduced to his immediate family and best friends? Is it enough that everyone who you think seems to matter in his life know of you? Is it enough just to be comfortable with just the "basic comforts" of companionship?
At some point you have to think words are just words. Now wonder why he doesn't invite you to go out? Why doesn't he ask you to participate in outings with friends? Am I just around for the time being? Is he afraid of letting me in too deep? Is he hoping "she" will show up and they can rekindle something? What is it he is not telling me?
This is not a pressure situation. You just need clarification. Sometimes just being there and accepting things as they come in a "relationship" is not enough. You have the right to ask questions. You have a right to know. If these things are not willing to be explored by both parties is it worth going forward? What steps do you take to a happy compromise? Does someone end up being hurt by the outcome?
Also take into consideration just because you love someone does not mean they are the one for you. If you love someone put them ahead of yourself. If you realize that the "relationship" is not going to be what you want then let it go but if it is worth fighting for then hang in there all the way. Most of all pray on it. Nothing changes without prayer.
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